Sunday, June 05, 2005

Bounce Back After Breakup

Problem with relationship, "maybe", "yes", "No", or "I don't Know". These are the common answer you give to your friends, but will his help.
Breaking up from relationship is never easy. However with help from the people around us like friends and family, the road may be easier to travel. Your life has only just begun, your move to next is by grow from the experience!!
Common reason people give when they broke up:
- Male serving the national service(NS)
- Given less time to opposite partner
- Too fast in relationship without thinking
- Many more reason
- Unable to understand
- No feeling
and Many more.......
Some of us unable to bear the breakup, there are 5 great way to conquer crisis.
1) It will hurt but Not forever
Forget what the songs tell you. The disappointment you feel will last for some time but not forever. Distract yourself from the pain by keeping busy. Call on old friends, make new ones, rediscover your hobby or concentrate on your work.
2) There are other out there
With time and effort you can discover another relationship. Be brave and try again.
3) Don' stand on a 3 legged stool
Build your life around many thing. Invest your time in family, friends, hobbies work and your spiritual needs. When one aspect of your life disappoints, there will be four others to support you. Building your life around one or two aspects will lead to instability when crisis strikes.
4) It's not the end of the world.
Talk to someone who has been through it. Like your brother, sister or friends may have been through a breakup. Ask about their experience, feeling and why. Your parents will be proud that you can manage your crisis.
5) I am stronger than that.
I can take knock in life. Nothing can stop me. I am stronger than that. With the support of my friends, family, buddies any my spirit, I can get over this obstacle. Drinking and smoking are not good ways to help me cope and I should not take too much of it. Driving dangerously is also not a solution to my problem.
These are the 5 tips been use on people who had breakup with their partner.

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